I do use the Black Moon Lilith in my composites, but what she represents there is a whole article of its own. I don know what to do. . Well, I m afraid I am precisely one of those people you talk about in the article , who experiment this weird illusion of being in telepathy with the unrequired love of their life. Everything you said is so on point. A lot of native speakers make this same mistake, and worse. Our midpoint composit cannot show any true about our relationship. I noticed you dont offer composite readings. Thank you very much. should i run away from this relationship? If I murdered this illusion, it would be like if I murdered my own soul ; I just cant . There are two conjunctions with ascendent as well. Mars is involved too, which would indicate that passion, anger and aggression can be triggered by the darker, more unconscious feelings that emerged when the . The area of the 12th house in which Black Moon Lilith makes a person experience their unconscious fears, pain, shame, and denial relates to their spiritual transcendence, self-undoing, and their ability to dive deeper into the mysteries of life.. That is why this article discusses a potentially enlightening topic. I still remember very clearly how I felt 10 years ago when I first met my former boyfriend. Im a Pisces sun 7house. oh gosh do not i know this! An ex-lover and I share composite Sun/Mercury in the 12th. Astro-Seek.com Seek and meet people born on the same date as you . We have a Sun, Venus, Ceres, Node, Lilith and Fortune in 12th house. We see each other regularly in our spiritual activities, and yet live on opposite coasts, and though dedicated to each other 100% as spiritual allies (and possibly more), we have no intentions of giving up our day-to-day independence. And I read from Stephen Arroyo that it is so important to see the traditional rulers of the signs , for example in Aquarius is more important to see Saturn than Uranus. Thank you. venus+mars, etc. The midpoint chart reveals the relationship on another level entirely. With Lilith so deeply involved, this relationship has a direct bearing on your feelings about your sexual power. It has felt fated, mesmerizing, seductive, magnetic and karmic. Thanks for taking the time to respond. Of course, this can lead to overspending and a tendency to overvalue anything that is overindulgent and impractical, but the positive energy Jupiter brings will generally get you through it. Hello, Skye. Mercury in the first is a good aspect to have because of the communication involved and the ability to think clearly regarding the relationship. It often indicates couples who seem to have a lot of shared experience and shared historyeven if they are new to one another, it feels old. They recognize one another when they meet. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. Composite Chart | PlutonicDesire - PlutonicDesire | Stuctured Astology Do you think that is true? taurus venus-mars conjunction in Your opinion? Eventually, some of their views may clash and this can . We have experienced together so much and it helps my mental developement so much and also your idea about loving and letting go interests me a lot. The relationship is a very private one, we share many trips together, and special 12th house retreat time together. In synastry, I have my sun, mercury, and mars in his 12th house in pisces, and his venus in my 12th house in cancer/gemini. I am reasonably happy in my 3+ year marriage, and yet, I still miss my former boyfriend desperately sometimes. Interesting description: it seems like weve followed ourselves around the country for each of our lives and not ever taking the time to learn about each other. Thank you Dawn for this very interesting article. On the one hand We are meant to be on the other, But if we are, why is it so hard?, When a couple has planets, or an important planet, in the 12th, it can go a couple of ways. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. When transit Mars is in the composite 12th house, you may become aware of subconscious drivers and motivators in your relationship, and this can help you gain a better understanding of one another. Neptune, as the higher octave of Venus, is all about connections, and the 12th house allows us to dissolve the boundaries of ordinary life in order to reach out beyond our mundane reality. For him, its TOO many of his own issues. I was heart broken all over again. It was emotional and intense, also warm and familiar at the same time. Lilith in the Twelfth House of Astrology (Explained) June 3, 2022 by Wisdom Tavern. Lilith here can even be drawn to cults. I found composite Saturn on the 12th house, trining the composite Sun/Venus/Merc on the 8th and sextile to the Moon on the 2nd. 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. Telepathy, visiting one another out of body, lucid dreaming where they communicate with one another, strange psychic links and melding of the two energetic bodies. What is the best approach? Looking forward to taking more classes with you in the future. I will look into it. Is there nothing better to hope for? Thank You so much for Your answer! The 12th house really gives you an opportunity to see behind the veil in such a powerful and beautiful way, to understand not only our existence in this lifetime, but our collective reason and the inner workings of the universe itself and the karmic bonds that we have formed with soul family that have traveled this journey with us for many many lifetimes. The south node lies there on the natal composite. It can also mean, in this case, unconscious elements making themselves known via the Ascendant in mysterious ways. My natal chart ruler is the Moon and his natal chart ruler is Mars. thanks Dawn for your reply. Composite north node (Aquarius) trine composite Saturn in Libra (which is conjunct his natal sun). If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Thank you very much Dawn. I had a relationship with someone, in our composite chart, we have a stellium in the 12th house Sun, Juno, Venus and Uranus. let go or fight for it? Thank You for Your answer and best regards from Hungary! .why is neptune conjunct sun so bad in composite? More appreciative of that special melding? He also has 12th house stellium in his own natal chart in Scorpio. November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27. We have Sun,mercury,venus and jupiter in 12th house virgo. For whatever reason, you may have a secret relationship . The romantic nature of the past relationship is more emphasized which planets such as Venus, Mars, or Lilith in the twelfth house. Ive seen couples with a heavy 12th house influence utterly befuddled and bedazzled by their lives (which dont go the way their friends lives go). Once they have hammered out their imbalance (too little, too much is often a theme with the 12th) they must find a way to make something real of their inspiration. the davison chart also has our moon, venus, saturn and uranus in the 1st. We have met up a few times since then, but our feelings for each other were immediate and are exceptionally strong even without the benefit of an active physical relationship. You're hypersensitive to energy and emotions in your environment, including the collective, if Chiron is in the 12th House. The lower expression has to be elevated, and the higher expression needs to be realized. Something is whispering in their ears. I feel so relieved after reading it because I really thought i was crazy. "Composite Chart, Midpoint- method (2)". Composite Houses, I'll begin, of course, with the Ascendant and the first quadrant of the chart. Lilith in the 12th house are really good at hiding their "lilith" nature and because of this they are usually popular. The composite chart has Sun/Jupiter conjunct by degree in the 12th in Scorpio, moon in the 12th in late Libra, and Scorpio rising. As a 8th house sun Virgo 8th Venus Leo I am sure this adds to my sexual nature. (Not at all helped by the fact that his Venus is square to my Sun at exact degrees.) Im also interested in anything about twin flame relationships. I have met my match. Thanks so much Dawn. The love you have for one another may be secret or private, and/or you are called upon to take a leap of faith in order to be with one another. Just a knowing if you will. HI, Sign up here if you would like to know when Dawn's Foundations e*book will be made available, The Composite Chart and the 12th House: The Ghost at the Door. Thoughts on this combo would be greatly appreciated by me. The lack of posturing and display of ego gives others the chance to have a "day in the sun," endearing the 12th house sun to the person they gave the chance to shine. However, Eros in the 12th may mean a less conscious eroticism drives the relationshipwe think we know what were doing but we may not, and may be subject to desires of all kinds. Its time to clean up the karma between you, according to the position of the Nodes in the composite chart. Sometimes the twelfth house energies become lost, and we create false gods from what we cannot find within us (for example, those with Leo on the 12th house cusp may worship creative expression, but not be able to find it in themselves). I need help! I like my husband as well after 20 years of marriage but I feel like I fell in this tragic love triangle story without asking for it! Saturn in 6th or 12th house in composite chart: This is a strong healing or service oriented relationship and you will work hard together for those purposes. He is a pisces/cap/aquar with cap moon in 12th house. Well, his descendant point, and his ascendant ruler both conjunct my natal Lilith in my12 th house, orb2. . When transit Venus is in the composite 12th house, you may enjoy being affectionate with one another when no one else around is around to pry and its just the two of you in a personal relationship. The Moon/Mars (Virgo) sextiles a close Sun/Jupiter (Cancer) conjunction in the 10th, sextiles Uranus (Scorpio) in the 2nd, trines Ceres (Capricorn) in the 4th, and squares Neptune (Sagittarius) in the 3rd all very close aspects. Even the sexual draw of 8th house connections can be replaced by more of them down the road, or by the excitement of the 5th. His sun, mercury and chiron is in the 12 house in his natal chart. This secrecy he is practising probably points to the venus-mars in composite twelfth ? We have Uranus, Mercury, Neptune, Saturn, North Node, Sun in the 12th. Any insight you may have would be extremely helpful, I am having difficulty understanding this 12th house energy. Pluto is elevated in the composite chart close to the midheaven in the 9th. Entering through my dreams, plenty of astral seduction going on out there in the ethers. I really feel like there is a wolf howling in a forest at night and I hear his call , I know I am the female wolf and that the call is for me and I have to go to him now. How ironic! Yes There is a higher purpose to these relationships. The composite charts (both Davison and midpoint) need to be progressed. In reality, 12th house people tend to believe it doesn't matter what they do. (Our North Node rulers often lead us down these blind alleyways.) The composite chart only reveals so muchcomparing natal charts tells us about the day to day of the people involved, their reactions to one another, their attractions, etc. Thank you in advance. I have to come to grips with it (what you said) altough it is not an easy thing for me when it comes to love (being an Aries lol I want to love with a passion and not just except it as an idea). Watch out for substance abuse and addictions. A very painful and challenging connection.